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How to express your love to a woman or not having sex alone
I love flying in airplanes.Sometimes there are people whose stories give rise to something new.For example, for this article.
Some time ago I flew from Egypt. Next in the chair was our compatriot, let's call her conditionally Tamara. We saw each other on the beach of our hotel and I said hello when boarding the plane. The flight was night. I wanted to sleep, so I was in no hurry to talk.
After a few minutes of flight, I discovered that Tamara was crying. And not just crying, but very bitter. My patience was enough for 20 minutes, without interfering. But it was still five hours to fly, and the prospect of sobbing during that time was not pleasing. We had to do something.
- Can I help you? I asked and held out the handkerchiefs.
- No, thank you ... - came back, although the eyes and posture said the opposite. And I prepared to listen to the story of the tragedy that occurred in her absence at home. But no!
About a year ago at the hotel she met a young employee. Sea, sun, rest.The novel, designed to be only a resort, suddenly dragged on.
Our heroine has almost abandoned the family, good, two adults already children and the husband-banker do not need to be fed with a spoon. Dismissed from a prestigious job, from where they do not leave of their own accord. At the first opportunity, Tamara rushed to Egypt and stayed there for as long as circumstances allowed. A week, a month, two. She was wagging her on the outskirts of the city from a luxury hotel every day. All onlyin order to be near your loved one.After listening to the main part, I asked in the forehead:
“Good, but how is it so different from the rest?” What is in it that is not in your husband?
He is ... affectionate!
- In the sense of ... um ... are you talking about sex?
- No, not only about it! He tells me how beautiful I am, sexy ... in a day he will send a few sms “Kiss you”, “Miss you” ...
“Is that all?” I clarified.
- Well yes…Is this not enough?
And really, is it a little or a lot?Two words are not enough. But if you regard it as a sign - a lot. A daily recurring sign creates a feeling of lasting contact, understanding and acceptance.
A sign is a transfer of information, say dictionaries.We communicate in sign language, without noticing it. And in order for the sign that you give to be correctly accepted, you need to agree on its meaning. What is it about?Your signs must carry the information that a woman is waiting for.And in the language that she understands. To do this, you need to literally clarify what your wife considers to be signs of love expression. This knowledge will save you time and nerves.
So first. Speak or write about your feelings. It is important for a woman to know that you remember her during the day.It may be a standard sticker with kisses from the options in the phone or just “I miss you”, it does not matter. The important thing is that you remembered your woman and spent your time, wrote!
The second. Give gifts.Of course, it could be anything. But among my friends, wish lists have long been accepted. Yes, and I have on my fridge a list of everything I want, from mascara to a new car, including theater tickets to a play or to Tallinn for a weekend. In a circle of loved ones, we are not ashamed to write a request, otherwise you risk receiving as a gift not at all what you want. At the same time hang a piece of paper with your desires.
Third. Time spent together.Take time to be near her. Let it be once a week, but this time is only for you two. And talk. Give her everything she wants. Listen up Nod your head, or at least say "Yeah," so that it is noticeable what you hear. I do not joke, these are features of female perception. Answer Speak what you have accumulated. What do you feel. It is important!
You can add a few more items, such as household help. But this is for advanced users.
... After landing, we immediately turned on the phones. And the first SMS that Tamara received was from Egypt."Miss you." In front of me stood a woman with an absolutely happy face.